Mugzy6

I had a boyfriend of two years that cheated on me about a month and a half into our relationship and I didn't find out about it until about year and a half later. It was probably the lowest point in my life. Drove me crazy. He lied to me about it multiple times, even when I asked him point blank. I only found out because his ex-girlfriend confessed the whole thing to me. We tried to make it work for a couple of months afterwards, but it was just impossible because there was absolutely no trust there. I was miserable after I broke up with him because I had come to love the security and comfort of the relationship. However, in the end it was the best thing I could have ever done for myself. I have a new boyfriend now that I love and trust pretty much completely and I'm the happiest I've ever been. While a divorce or an annulment may not seem like the best idea right now, in the long run it will be much healthier. You have to have trust in a relationship for it to work and it doesn't sound like your wife is very trustworthy. However, this is completely up to you. Eventually your kid could find out about his mother's infidelity and if so they would most likely understand why the divorce or annulment had to take place. Plus, it would be better to divorce/annul your marriage now while the kid is young and much less likely to be hurt by it.