Dude, your attitude is working against you. My wife told me that a co-worker of hers was going to pose nude (tastefully) for a professional photographer, and I asked her if she had ever considered it. When she said that she had I encouraged her. You wouldn't believe what a shot to the self-esteem that was for her. An admission by me that I feel that her body is attractive enough to pose nude did wonders for how she views herself. It was also a re-affirmation of my commitment to her that I would hold that level of trust in her.
And it did not hurt the sex life one damn little bit ;P
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