zenmaster10665

Hi All.

Thanks for all the advice from the past...it definitely helped me, but my and my girlfriend of 3 years are now in a bit more of a mess...

We are getting along great and we love each other very much, but the sex has gotten really monotonous and hard to handle, almost. I am not sure why, but we can't seem to have good sex anymore...many times it just turns into a fight when we try to get intimate...

I really do love my girlfriend, and I am very attracted to her still, but I am sometimes not sure if I might be more attracted to other women...I am not sure if this is just due to the fact that we have been together 3 years, or that she is nearly 30 (I am 27) or that I am just an asshole who thinks that the grass is greener on the other side.

I really do love her, she is my best friend, and she is an attractive girl, but I cant help thinking: "I wonder if there is a hotter girl who is more perfect for me than her."

Am I being selfish and stupid? Will the sex come back around?? Should I end it and go on my planned travels alone?

thanks from listening.

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