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Originally Posted by Janey
okay, so it comes down to the pure physicality of it all. if we define M = XY (genetically) and F = XX, then regardless of how they externalize themselves, i.e. transgendering, cross-dressing, Queening, Butching, as long as you have an XX & XX pairing, or XY & XY pairing for sexual reasons, they are defined as gay.
In the case of communal living, they would not be defined as gay, because there is no physical relationship. what about remote relationships? eg, internet lovers, where there is no physical contact?
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Wow, we are getting a bit off topic... oh well.
If I am I guy who loves men and when I think about being in a relationship with someone and that someone is a man... I am gay.
If I am that same guy and a can also see myself in relationships with women... that would make me bisexual.
If I am I woman who loves women and when I think about being in a relationship with someone and that someone is a woman... I am a lesbian.
If I am that same woman and a can also see myself in relationships with men... that would make me bisexual.
As for a post op transgendered male who likes to sleep with women... is that transgendered individual a lesbian or a heterosexual? Good question. My first instinct is to say they are hetero.