I have my answers now. To those of you who replied, thank you; it's much appreciated. I don't think I need any more replies though.
Perhaps I should have broken it off when the problem first surfaced months and months ago. However, I have put too much of my time and trouble into this, and my opinion dictates that I cannot just cut my losses at a moment's notice like that. I will stick by the deadline, see what can and cannot be done in this relationship and decide for myself.
I don't feel I received the kind of advice I was looking for, but that is mostly my fault for making the question unclear. Again, thank you to those who offered their advice and views on the subject.
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cheers to the motherland
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