Sometimes, being slightly rude is the only way to stop some things. That person is the one being selfish, not you. If you do not want people borrowing them, just explain that you do not allow anyone to borrow them and why. If you feel that isnt enough, maybe compromise saying occasionally if you really want to see a movie or play a game you can do it here? In the end, your living in an apartment, this guy isnt living in your apartment, and if its like my apartments you may not even be living next to this guy in a year or two.
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