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Originally Posted by Janie
He confessed to me that not cheating was higher up on his list of morals than no promiscuity. I don't understand why he has such a big problem with me not matching up with his morals when he himself violated his own morals and seems to have come to terms with that fairly quickly.
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He's got a judge in his head judging everything -- you, but also himself. Don't assume that he isn't beating himself up about it inside -- people often do. Men often try to deny that or at least avoid showing it, because it doesn't fit in with their conception of what men are supposed to be. He's still lost inside the dream of control, where he feels responsible for (and threatened by) the actions of others.
If you don't love him, best advice is to move on.