This is awful. Just awful. The crux of this is that she is treating you like shit. She is riding rough-shod over your feelings for her to satisfy this 'addiction'. Even if that's true, and it is a genuine problem she has (which I somehow doubt), it really doesn't look like she's very interested in solving it. If she feels guilty about it when you find out, why doesn't she feel guilty about it when she's doing it?
Ultimately, it doesn't matter what she says about wanting to make it work out, wanting to stay with you. Judge her by her actions. What do they tell you? I'm outside the situation, but this is how I see it. If she really loved you, she wouldn't be opening her legs for every dude who happens to roam past. Bottom line.
Surely she knows how much this cuts you up? I would be devastated in your shoes, I know that much. So why would she keep doing it if she cared about you? It doesn't matter what she says, it's what she does that counts.
If I were you, I'd snatch up your kid and bail. Tell her she needs to get her fidelity issues handled before you'll let the kid spend time with her. The last thing he needs is a series of 'uncles'.
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