blueskies:
You sound pretty much like me, but I've never lived with another women. Tried dating somewhat seriously a few times, but that's not really what I want, I mean living together with anybody else than the man I now am with. He is enough of an "soul mate" for me to fulfill that part. We both like comics, computer games, red wines, big breasts on redheads or brunettes, rating women on the street, surfing porn, playing rpgs, I just want sex & romance and something. I get attracted to intelligent people or extroverted ones, but I must admit that looks is more of an factor for me with women than with men.
About there being lot of bi girl around:
Yeah, there is! Women are more allowed to be bisexual than men and the porn fantasies of stemy lesbian sex will assure that no boyfriend says "hell no, you can't go sleeping around with other women, that's cheating just the same as with men!" Boyfriends don't think they really could lose you to that woman and she can't be THAT good in between the sheets that he'd be totally worthless after you got used to girls. I have come into cobclusion that extremely rarely yound women freak out if their men suggest watching porn together and when they do, the girls are looking at the women. Female body is everywhere in this culture and women learn to get intrested in it.
Back to what I meant to say: There's tons of cute bi-girls out there! That's why I've been telling you to try get a conversation going in your IRL circles and not waiting that some mystery date from the Net would be right for you.
If you are shy, take your man with you, but if you really want to explore the possiblities of it, leave him home. You can promise him to tell every dirrrty detail, right?