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Old 11-03-2004, 04:19 PM   #40 (permalink)
Redjake
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Originally Posted by NoSoup
A bit of background:

Recently, I turned 21, which is the legal drinking age here. I have never really been an avid drinker, and probably drank heavily maybe 3-4 times a year, and even then wasn't really considered that drunk.

Anyway, on my 21st birthday I took an obsene amount of shots, probably more alchohol than I had in the past several years combined. I did get extraordinarily wasted, but still was aware of what I was doing and remembered it all the next day.

My question, based on my experience, is this:

When people use the excuse "I was drunk" - is that really an excuse?

Here is my thinking, I'm curious as to whether or not anyone else feels the same way. First of all, I don't believe it is an excuse simply based on the fact that if you are unable to take responsibility for your actions while drinking, you shouldn't be drinking at all. Secondly, although alchohol certainly lowers inhibitions, but you still know the consequences of your decisions. It ticks me off when people think that being drunk is the end all be all excuse for everything. I think that drinking allows one to do things that they would normally not have the guts to do... for better or worse.

On a side note, I realize that alchohol affects people differently. When I get drunk, I am usually pretty quiet and just revel in being drunk. However, when I do speak, I am quite certain that I am the most humorous guy on the planet. Others, unfortunately, are not quite as amused


this is uncanny - I feel almost the exact same way. I just sort of sit there and bask in the glory of being wasted. The one time I got so fucking wasted that I was stopped by the people at the party (enough to have alcohol poisoning), I STILL knew what I was doing. I wouldn't do anything stupid like rape a girl or throw a bowling ball through a car windshield. I find myself asking the same question: Is being drunk really an excuse?


I've heard that I have a very high tolerance for alcohol, and I do, so maybe that has something to do with how I "felt." But I just don't see how it could alter you to the point where you would do something that bad.
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