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The only problem with trying to address the emotional issues that pubescent youngsters have (although it is still the best way, I agree), is that they're all crazy. I know at that age I cared more about what people at school that I barely even knew said than what my parents said, and from what I've read of psychology, that's actually a pretty normal thing. There are numerous emotional and psychological conditions attributed to puberty, and they are very widespread in our society.
I'd think the best way to help your children deal with the pressures of puberty would be to start emotionally "molding" them, if you will, to learn to resist those BS peer issues that always arise in Jr High and HS. Also, extensive socializing with many other children at young ages is probably a very good idea as well, so that they can better cope with those issues when presented in a social situation (not just psychologically after the fact).
And I apologize for my personal attack. It's not an excuse, but I happened to be reading this thread at a period of mental and emotional imbalance. I shouldn't have attacked you for your differing views, Grace, and I'm sorry.
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