hah, I wish my girlfriend was as open as you with the rimjob idea
But the best thing is just try things and see how he responds...For oral sex try to focus on the vainy part rite under the head (that always works for me), also for intercourse try keeping your legs togather a bit (makes you feel tighter, a lot more feeling for the guy), and also try some new positions if you havent yet (doggie is great
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