I think I could deal with my wife sleeping with someone once if she let me know soon after. In that case, I'd be willing to work things out (although I'd probably "get even" first). If she had a long term affair I'd be through with her. There's no way I'd put up with that shit.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/grap...i5033a_qa.html
Quote:
|
A few months ago I found out she was having an affair. She says she loves us both, and can't make a choice. If forced to, she says she will give up both of us. I love my wife very much and want to work it out. We are both in counseling, but she is spending quite of bit of her time with him. They even go on out-of-town business trips together. He is married and has offered to leave his wife for her. My wife says she is very confused and needs time. She will not tell me when she sees him or talks to him, I don't ask so as not to pressure her. I have always done everything for her to allow her to pursue her career. I am trying to be patient, but how long should I wait?
|
No offense to people who have been there, but this kind of shit happens to people and they allow it to continue.