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How is her sister? Do you think her sister would take reasonable care of the children if she felt obligated to? Because if you arent worried about them getting mistreated by the sister then I would let this go. When the child (wife) wants to go out and party over and over and keeps leaving the kids with her sister (fluffing responsibility off on her sister that she normally would fluff of on you). Her sister is only going to put up with it for a while, a shorter while than you would, then she is going to let her have it. Moving in with her sister serves the purpose of being free from obligations to you while still having someone to clean up after her and be the grown up. Her sister will not let this last.
And on that note, maybe you should start showing her sister some attention. Dont hit on her, just when you pick up the kids, talk to the sister (maybe even more than you wife). Get to talking personally to her and vent (not angrily) to her about what your wife is doing to you. 1 this will make her fucking jealous as shite. and 2 if you can bring her sister to your side even a little bit, it will be very fruitful. Her sister has heard a totally different side of this and probably has very little concept of how much of an irresponsible child she is being. So right now your sister-in-law is probably trying to be supportive of her and just encouraging her and telling her its okay to be a child.
Maybe you should just print this whole thread out and give it to her. I dont know if that one would do any good, it would at least make her realize how much of a bitch she is being.
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