My ex-girlfriend was like this. She wouldn't tell me anything unless I asked her. We would be on the phone for an hour and talk for about 15 minutes. All we talked about was the weather (for real) and stupid stuff like that. It was rough. I do have problems initiating conversations with people I don't know, but it doesn't take much for me to engage in a conversation with somebody. I'm anxious to hear what other people think, as well as anxious to give my input. When I have to introduce a new topic every time I speak just to keep conversation alive, it tells me that either a) they aren't interested in talking to me, b) they don't like talking to anyone, or c) they are shallow and don't think at all. I don't want to waste my time with people like that anyway.
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