I can say for sure that i'm a non-talker to the Nth degree, though it's more just due to being shy to a fault than anything else.
The problems i have is that i find it hard to articulate and express what i'm thinking, due to being, as mention before, being very shy. I'm generally ok with my closer friends because they know this is how i am, and will listen to me when i do decide to talk, which is nice.
Most of the time i'm perfectly content with just listening to and observing those around me, it's actually suprisingly interesting when you learn how to read peoples eyes and speech paterns.
I do agree with Rodney and his view on companionable silence, if theres a silence that just rounds it head, let it dissapear on it's own accord.
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