I am a total non-talker, but I also don't pick up the phone and call other people expecting them to carry the conversation. I know what it's like to not be a talker, so it's not a position I like to put myself in... So I'm not sure why she's calling you...
Well, I do know why, she likes you and she's trying to break thru this problem she has -- If you google on "Conversation Starters" you might find some interesting topics to get her started talking, avoid questions that have a yes or no answer,and when she does start to talk -- Don't ever say "go on" or "keep going" that's just annoying andit calls attention tot he fact that talking is happening.
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