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My opinion:
I don’t know the specifics about your daughter’s situation, but if she's still that pissed at you, she's going to leave the house when she's 18 and you won't see her or the baby again for a long time. Your daughter was a willing participant in the creation of this child, so I have a hard time accepting the rape thing. Yes, technically it's a crime to have sex with a minor but that law was written by people who think that sex is a dirty thing that should be swept under the rug. I don't really believe that it's effective at all. I think that you're just mad because somebody "violated" your child and you're pissed about it. You want to get even. And in the course of your getting even you've destroyed the lines of communication with your daughter. Like I wais, she was a willing participant so I have a hard time believing that it was rape. Even if she was 16. I think that law is bullshit but at the same time it's not good if 20 years olds are fucking 14 year olds either. I think that every situation should be viewed differently. Bottom line, you're going to have to give a little if you want to see your grandchild.
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