I was involved in a few prior to getting married and the prospect of trying it with my wife has been a frequent topic of conversation for us. We haven't taken the plunge (no pun intended) and I doubt that we will, although there is one woman in particular that we discuss as a potential candidate.
For us, the fantasy aspect of it is appealing and talking about it during and away from sex makes for some very erotic fun. Whether or not you go through with it, you should both feel free to engage in role-play or erotic talk to enjoy some of the benefits without much of the risk.
One last thought, and I am not sure where the group stands.....my gut tells me that if it is not something you can do sober, you probably shouldn't do it. Perhaps the discussion about ground rules should include whether or not booze is OK.
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