My thing about faking is the faker is only depriving themselves and lying to their partner. It would be so much easier just to say, "I'm not into it tonite, or I don't need to get off this time" or something similar. I know some guys are obsessive about the woman having an orgasm, and they need to be given consideration and affirmation, but don't ever fake it. It really doesn't make anything easier if you are found out.
I would ask her why she chose to fake it on those occasions. Why did she choose faking over communication? Explain to her you'd rather not get her off once in a while than be duped.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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