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As a guy who is somewhat shy, I can understand his reluctance to "bite the bullet."
However, don't stalk. I agree. But, would this be all that different than being a college student, visiting a mate at another college, seeing a girl you like and getting her number from the student directory? Would that be stalking?
Frankly, if you can't ask her out yourself, just ask yourself why you can't. Are you afraid of rejection? Are you afraid she'll laugh? Are you afraid she'll say yes?
Have a plan. Say it OUT LOUD in front of a mirror. If you can't look yourself in the eyes and say the words you want to say to a woman, then don't bother. You'll come across too weak otherwise.
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