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Originally Posted by xxjuicesxx
It doesn't matter if he's bitter or not. That has nothing to do with how true or false the ladder theory is. Obviously the ladder theory creates his bitter tone and you cant really tell if he is bitter. He could be one of the most popular guys ever with the girls you dont fucking know him. You have to look at the facts and realize there is truth there and I think women do look for the wrong shit in guys of course it cant fit into your life experiences everytime because theres more variables that the ladder theory does not go into. Its not a deep theory but its so right, at least for my experiences so far so I say its truth.
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I don't care if he's bitter. Fuck if i care if Niels Bohr was the most bitter motherfucker since hitler's secret gay jewish lovechild, if a theory holds up it holds up and ladder theory doesn't hold up. Maybe it holds if up your primary source for meeting women is a nightclub, but i can assure that most of america's women aren't in nightclubs every friday night.
He could be the most popular guy in the world with girls, until they see his website and see how he labels 99.999999% of all women bitches. Women do look for the wrong shit in guys, and guys look for the wrong shit in girls.
I have a theory. Maybe i'll get a website too. Here goes, "People in general have emotional problems and in many instances these problems come into play in the course of interpersonal relationships. If you are ever going to hope for a stable, healthy and functional relationship with anybody, let alone someone you are sexually attracted to than you should start by figuring out how you yourself are fucked up emotionally". Actually, right there i think i just came up with a theory that supersedes ladder in both clarity and actual application to reality.
The problem with ladder theory is that is seems to assume:
1. That all men are trying to get laid all of the time.
2. That rule 1 is acceptable and inherent.
3. That all women use their keen vaginally linked knowledge to exploit rules 1 and 2.
and finally
4. Men should, instead of simply not trying to stick their cocks in something warm 24 hours a day, should actually try and exploit women's exploitation of them, i.e. use rule 4 to their advantage.
The problem is that rule one, the lynchpin, is bullshit. The rules certainly apply to people who choose to live in such a manner, but i assure you that most functional adults don't behave that way. Grown up men can have relationships with sexually attractive women that they don't want to fuck. Grown up men don't allow women to use them for emotional stability for the sole reason that they might get a whiff of vagina. Grown up men don't care if they end up on the friend list because they are aware of the statistical certainty that they can indeed find a women who wants to be in a sexual relationship with them.