foscon

I need some advice or help....after hanging out here for awhile I've reminded myself of something I've made several references to that I seen a couple of years ago that even before I started hanging around here I cant get out of my head, I seen my wife do some things with a friend one night after drinking and playing strip poker, I then did some things with his wife without either of their knowledge (my wife's or her husband's) I later hinted around that I thought I seen her do something and she denied it. Well I know what I saw or at least I think I do, but I never said anything about what I did.......now what she did for some reason doesnt bother me.....(it kinda turns me on) but should I say anything thing to her when the moment is right to maybe get things a little warmer ( about what I saw and how I'm allright with it ) and see if I can get her to admit to it, or keep my mouth shut and continue to share my story ?