Well I just read this whole thread all last night and tonight.
I must say that it is some amazing stuff you know plan9, you are a god among men
Well ive been a pretty lonley and depressed guy for most of my life, my only relationship was back when I was in 8th and 9th grade :\
But after reading up on everything, im going to try out your methods.
Im usually really shy and always screw up talking to girls or totally avoid them for fear of rejection, since I have almost no confidence.
But if I use the tactics you have listed, and work out and such, im sure I could get some girls.
Ill be sure to post back on if I was successful or not.