If you were 21 and said that you had no idea what you wanted to do with your life, I'd give you a cookie and say congratulations, you are completely normal. But you have some idea of what you want, it's your follow thru that seems to be lacking, you can still ahve the cookie, because you are still completely normal.
What do you want to do with your life, and it doesn't have to be the "rest of your life" because it's rare that somoene will pick a career at 21, and have it for the next 40 years.
Break it down into smaller numbers. Where do you see yourself in a year? Out of school, living on your own? Working? What do you have to do to make that happen?
What about 5 years from now, what are your short range plans.
Having a personality doesn't stem from what you want to do, it comes from you, and you have one... What makes you tick, what are your interests, are you quiet and shy, are you the lampshade on the head party person, animal lover, helper of people.
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Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
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