My entire life, all of my closest friends have been male. I just get along with men better, and I can be quite the tomboy, so it just works best that way. Of all the relationships I've had with men, the only one that ever turned sexual was when Secret asked me out and he became my SO rather than just a friend. But otherwise, I've always had male friends and never had any weird sexual tension. In my opinion, it should be no problem to be friends with the opposite sex (or same if you're homosexual of course) and still have completely non-sexual relationships.
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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