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<b>I'm posting this response from one of our male members -</b>
"Are you in denial or something. I know I am not allowed to post here but there is somthing seriously wrong with your story that you dont seem to understand.
Brian has been faithful to you the whole time. You on the other hand you had sexual relations with another person, tried to get away with it by not telling him about it, then got caught by the mutual friend. Now you are mad at Ryan becuase he told some secrets about you?
You broke his confidence and lied to him. You were the one who sent the ball rolling on these tracks of events. He didnt do anything to make it start.
You act like he should be all fine with what happened to him. And yes I am saying it happened to him. He didnt do anything wrong at the start you were the problem maker and caused all this drama. You dont think he he hurts that you lied, decieved, and cheated on him? I bet he hurts more then you do. Guys have feelings too. I bet that if the situation was flipped around you would be doing the same thing. Women are very good at manipulation and word control so I wouldnt be suprised if you acted the same way Ryan is doing to you.
I know I am not allowed to post here, but damn, you need to see the side that he is on. You made the mess and you have to deal with it. You broke the cardnal code of a relationship. What you did will never be forgiven ever no matter if he says he forgives you or not. Your life with him is changed forever and if you think it will be the same as it was before you are fooling yourself and need to call Dr. Phil."
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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