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Hey, I got a little snag here. My girlfriend and I have been getting more intimate, we arn't having sex yet but we do want to give eachother some pleasure. I've been able to get her off, I'm pretty sure, using my hands although she doesnt want me under the panty yet. She aswell seems bent on making me have a good time by going for the handjob: Here lies the snag. We are in my bed and I'm still somewhat clothed. See it's simplier to get her off, there's no mess. But with a guy, obviously, theres more clean up involved. That's really made me wary of getting off to a handjob cause I dont want to be washing my sheet constantly or rush off to clean the cum outta my pants. I've talked to her about it before and she understands. But she really wants to give me the same feeling im giving her and she has gone back to doing it. I have to keep teling her to slow down or stop and sometimes holding it back can become a bear, not to mention the blueball effect. I want to cum but i don't know the best way to deal with the mess, plus I have no idea how shes going to react to getting cum on her. I know I have to talk to her again but I want to go in with some solutions. Really what i'm looking for is a way for me to cum and have it be as mess less as possible without it ruining the romance toomuch. How to I deal with a handjob?