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StephenSa · 07-30-2004, 11:15 AM

Its been said already but again, say what you feel! If something is wrong, tell me. I hate it when there is obviously a problem and I ask and get "No, nothings wrong I'm fine." then three days later you finally tell me why you are pissed that I did or didn't do X thing. For crying out loud if I had known three days ago maybe we could have worked it out and saved ourselves three days of "mystery misery"! Also, when we are supposed to leave at 7:00 I like to LEAVE AT 7:00! Not all women do this but I've been with my fair share that believe 7:00 means 7:30. I also like to plan my excursions and go from point A to point B, don't wait until we are on the way somewhere to tell me "Oh, we need to stop by the bank and go by the shop and etc etc." Here's another, Don't make me initiate sex all the time. I can't read your mind and if you don't let me know you're in the mood I might choose to watch Robocop instead of going beggin' fer some lovin' I might not get! Yet another, Don't make plans for me without telling me or assume that because you enjoy something I will too. Example: I come home from a hard days work and I hear "You need to get ready I told Jan and Mike we would come over for dinner" Great. I'm exhausted and now get to make unexpected chit chat when all I want to do is collapse. Or "I told the group we'd love to go camping and canoeing this weekend, we'll have to leave early Saturday! It'll be so fun! NO it won't. And at last, I know its hard but try to get over the bad self image/weight thing and don't put ME in a bad spot. Example: You say you are fat. I say no, I love you and you are beautiful. You then say "No I'm not, I'm fat!" I say "Sweetie, I think you are gorgeous!" You say "Look at me! How can you say I"m not a fat pig!" I finally tire of this and say "Look, Honey I think you are beautiful, maybe you could lose a few pounds but you are fine to me. You then burst out crying and say "I KNEW you thought I was a pig!" If you don't want an eventual honest answer then leave it alone. When you poke the tiger long enough and get a reasonable honest answer don't blow it out of proportion. Also, more blow jobs.

Whew.... that felt great.

07-30-2004, 11:15 AM	#37 (permalink)
StephenSa Psycho Location: Dallas, Texas	Its been said already but again, say what you feel! If something is wrong, tell me. I hate it when there is obviously a problem and I ask and get "No, nothings wrong I'm fine." then three days later you finally tell me why you are pissed that I did or didn't do X thing. For crying out loud if I had known three days ago maybe we could have worked it out and saved ourselves three days of "mystery misery"! Also, when we are supposed to leave at 7:00 I like to LEAVE AT 7:00! Not all women do this but I've been with my fair share that believe 7:00 means 7:30. I also like to plan my excursions and go from point A to point B, don't wait until we are on the way somewhere to tell me "Oh, we need to stop by the bank and go by the shop and etc etc." Here's another, Don't make me initiate sex all the time. I can't read your mind and if you don't let me know you're in the mood I might choose to watch Robocop instead of going beggin' fer some lovin' I might not get! Yet another, Don't make plans for me without telling me or assume that because you enjoy something I will too. Example: I come home from a hard days work and I hear "You need to get ready I told Jan and Mike we would come over for dinner" Great. I'm exhausted and now get to make unexpected chit chat when all I want to do is collapse. Or "I told the group we'd love to go camping and canoeing this weekend, we'll have to leave early Saturday! It'll be so fun! NO it won't. And at last, I know its hard but try to get over the bad self image/weight thing and don't put ME in a bad spot. Example: You say you are fat. I say no, I love you and you are beautiful. You then say "No I'm not, I'm fat!" I say "Sweetie, I think you are gorgeous!" You say "Look at me! How can you say I"m not a fat pig!" I finally tire of this and say "Look, Honey I think you are beautiful, maybe you could lose a few pounds but you are fine to me. You then burst out crying and say "I KNEW you thought I was a pig!" If you don't want an eventual honest answer then leave it alone. When you poke the tiger long enough and get a reasonable honest answer don't blow it out of proportion. Also, more blow jobs. Whew.... that felt great. __________________ Thousands of Monkeys, all screaming at once. Pulling God's finger.