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Mondak · 05-07-2003, 06:27 PM

I don't think it is doom at all.

The key is that you need to be a 10 out of 10 on the comunication side before even thinking about this. You need to understand all the ground rules and also what the other person is feeling about the situation way before diving in.

My wife and I are both attracted to women and have had a few experiences that I will let her describe to you if and when I ever get her on the TFP. Regardless, you need to be an open book in the rest of your life if this is going to work out.

We are not jealous of each other. We are both attractive and we give each other a lot of love and support so that jealously is out of the question. If we were less confident, that would be pretty tough to pull off.

As far as the ground rules are concerned, some are double standards that we had to agree on so that we can both feel comfortable with. Thinks like: she is the only one who can pick or bring home the women. (I can make helpful suggestions, but they may not matter at all). Also it is a MFF or MFFFFFFFFetc) but there are no other penises invited. Like I said. Some stuff is just not fair, but the important thing is that you talk about the potential situations and then stick to what you said.

05-07-2003, 06:27 PM	#4 (permalink)
Mondak Industrialist Location: Southern California	I don't think it is doom at all. The key is that you need to be a 10 out of 10 on the comunication side before even thinking about this. You need to understand all the ground rules and also what the other person is feeling about the situation way before diving in. My wife and I are both attracted to women and have had a few experiences that I will let her describe to you if and when I ever get her on the TFP. Regardless, you need to be an open book in the rest of your life if this is going to work out. We are not jealous of each other. We are both attractive and we give each other a lot of love and support so that jealously is out of the question. If we were less confident, that would be pretty tough to pull off. As far as the ground rules are concerned, some are double standards that we had to agree on so that we can both feel comfortable with. Thinks like: she is the only one who can pick or bring home the women. (I can make helpful suggestions, but they may not matter at all). Also it is a MFF or MFFFFFFFFetc) but there are no other penises invited. Like I said. Some stuff is just not fair, but the important thing is that you talk about the potential situations and then stick to what you said. __________________ All truth passes through three stages: First it is ridiculed Second, it is violently opposed and Third, it is accepted as self-evident. ARTHUR SCHOPENHAUER (1788-1860)