I don't have any close guy friends and really the only ones I talk to regularly are my husband's friends. In highschool I had 2 male friends who didn't want to sleep with me- 1 was gay the other must have been my brother in a previous life. Those are the only 2 guys I've ever had as close friends who I was sure didn't want to do the squelchie.
I do have male friends who I know would probably sleep with me if I gave them any signal that I was up for it, but I think as long as I keep that distance then it's OK for us to be friends. We're not best friends, to me that should be reserved for your SO. I don't even have a female friend that I consider to be a best friend because my best friend is my husband.
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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