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Not to bash here.
being in check/ covering all the bases/your nature.
all these lead to the same thing you really don't trust her.
You can't say you do if you feel that covering your bases by knowing all about her movements to put YOUR mind at ease is trust.
Trust is not having a safety net. Its not carring where your friends see your g/f or with whom she is with. Its knowing that in any situation you know it won't matter because you do TURST her.
And no I do understand what you are saying because I have been there. And its not something that gets better with time unless you do learn what trust is before you loose what it is you want.
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"Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man
affected us as kids,we'd all be running around in
darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening
to repetitive electronic music."
-Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989
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