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I haven't had a close girl friend in years. I recently got a new cell phone. While I was transferring my numbers, I realized that I only had like, three phone numbers in there that were for girls.... girls I rarely talk to, also.
My boyfriend's okay with the fact that I'll still go hang out with friends that are guys. I don't do it often, but he knows that I was friends with these guys before he and I got together, and that some of these guys were good friends of mine before we even met. The fact that he trusts me so much helps me trust him, as well as makes me want to show him he can trust me. Sure a bout of insecurity will get one or both of us at times, but it gets worked out and we're both happy when the day's over.
I've had relationships in the past that the guy got pissed off if I talked to any male but him. It was irritating, and I should have stood up for myself. The lack of trust proved itself when one messed around with someone else right after 'clarifying' our relationship.
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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