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raeanna74 · 07-24-2004, 05:16 AM

Used to have LOTS of male friends and never had sex with any of them. Married hubby - we still have many mutual friends from college who for obvious reasons we don't swing with.

Currently most of our closer friends are coincidentally swingers too. Dawson70 here is one of such friends. He and his wife live just a couple blocks away from where we live. We've only played around with them twice in almost 2 years now. We spend a lot of time just talking and visiting with them. We go over and let our daughter play with theirs and their kids come over to our place now and then. I would say it's a comfortable relationship that isn't necessarily centered on sex. Just friends with benefits.

A lot of our swinger friends are like that. We've even gone to visit another swinger couple that we're good friends with and taken our daughter with. We went with the intention of just visiting and having fun and if our daughter (who was 3 at the time so hadn't a clue anything was 'up') took a nap we'd have fun. We did get to play but most of the visit was just good old plan friendship fun.

I know our situation is maybe a little different but common - guys can't expect us to give it up to EVERYONE. If they haven't the capacity to maintain a normal NON-sexual relationship then they need to bit of growing up or they'll never have anything BUT a sexual relationship with a girl and they'll be so terribly pussy-whipped.

07-24-2004, 05:16 AM	#13 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Used to have LOTS of male friends and never had sex with any of them. Married hubby - we still have many mutual friends from college who for obvious reasons we don't swing with. Currently most of our closer friends are coincidentally swingers too. Dawson70 here is one of such friends. He and his wife live just a couple blocks away from where we live. We've only played around with them twice in almost 2 years now. We spend a lot of time just talking and visiting with them. We go over and let our daughter play with theirs and their kids come over to our place now and then. I would say it's a comfortable relationship that isn't necessarily centered on sex. Just friends with benefits. A lot of our swinger friends are like that. We've even gone to visit another swinger couple that we're good friends with and taken our daughter with. We went with the intention of just visiting and having fun and if our daughter (who was 3 at the time so hadn't a clue anything was 'up') took a nap we'd have fun. We did get to play but most of the visit was just good old plan friendship fun. I know our situation is maybe a little different but common - guys can't expect us to give it up to EVERYONE. If they haven't the capacity to maintain a normal NON-sexual relationship then they need to bit of growing up or they'll never have anything BUT a sexual relationship with a girl and they'll be so terribly pussy-whipped. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.