Similar situation with my wife and I (though she doesn't instult me or slap me). If you are sure you love her (take some time and think on it), then I would use the suggestions people above have had, but also be aware there is no use in sticking to a relationship that only makes you feel like crap.
I love my wife, but it can be very frustrating for the both of us when we don't want sex at the same time, or when only one of us wants it. End result is that our intimacy comes in peaks and valleys. When it is riding a peak, we can have sex three or more times a week, but when its in a low it can be once or twice a month. Took a while for me to get use to it, but for the most part I have. Hope you can find a solution!
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