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Quote some movie I saw once, "Sounds like nothing a little prozac and a polo mallet couldn't fix."
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. If your sister has always been this way, maybe she needs to see a doctor. Prozac or some other psychological drug may be in order.
I can relate somewhat: my sister-in-law is mooching off her parents in a lot of ways your sister is and it drives my wife nuts sometimes; one of my aunts is that overbarring type that tries to control everyone and her and my mother haven't spoken in years because of it. To have all that bundled in one person though... sheesh!
I think your neice is the main concern though. I have a 15month old at home and she can get on my nerves, but I would never, ever throw something at her! I don't think I could stand to see a stranger do that to thier own child without me saying something.
You have every right not to want to go over there. Tell your parents that they can come to see you when ever they'd like and be sure to tell your grandparents the same, but tell them you won't be coming to visit their house any time soon. Maybe offer your sister some free babysitting just so you can be part of your neice's life (when she grows up she might come to you if she has a problem instead of her mother).
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