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Originally posted by dendron
she says that she wants me to be who I was and just let her go do what she wants to do with whoever so I'm just gonna let her go trust her until she gives me a reason not to then its over plz anymore info is appreciated
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Ok, I'm changing my mind I think -- let me understand this.
She wants you to be supportive and stand by her and be her friend and all that goes with it.
She wants to do exactly as she pleases with whomever she pleases. What exactly does that mean? Girlfriends, guy friends, sexual relationships?
Some people have no problem with open relationships, and they can screw whomever they want to as long as the heart beongs only to one... However.. both sides have to agree.
I'm not sure she can have it both ways.
If she wants the freedom to have wahtever friends she wants to, then that's great, in a relationship, a person needs to maintain their own identity, you go out and have your own friends too....
But... and I'm trying to say this as nicely as i can...
Have a little more respect for yourself than to be her beck and call boy. You deserve someone who will treat you better than that.