We found out before that she was supposed to be a girl. Figuring Dr's can sometimes be wrong we still went with mostly neutral gender stuff but got a few frilly things too. I'm glad we found out early as I ended up having an emergency C-section and when they brought her out I was so drugged up and my arms tied down so I couldn't respond much. Learning at that point what she was mattered little. Just that she was ok was all that mattered. We still had names picked out for either gender too. Gender didn't matter at that much to us. We were glad to have her either way.
She's grown into a Daddy's girl. Just last week she was asking about what getting married means. I told her that she could get married when she was grown up and found a boy that she really loved and who loved her. She promptly said "Well I love Daddy."
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