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Tough situation to give advice on.
I will say this. Sex is an important part of a relationship, though not the most important part. If you are looking for a long term, possble marrige type relationship, then you need to be with someone that you can be comfortable with sexually and mentally. I think that you should lay it all out on the line for her. Tell her that you love her, but that you can't be with someone that shows little interest in your sexual relationship. You need to find someone that is on your level. There may be something that is bothering her that can easily be solved. Also, the two of you may be able to find a middle ground. It may sound corny, but once a week, set up a night where one of you has to try something new.
The bottom line is that you need to talk to her and see where she stands. It may be something that can be worked on between the two of you, or it may not. But, until you get to the root of the problem, you cannot make a fair decision.
I know that it isn't the easiest thing to discuss, but get it off your chest. I wish you luck!
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