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Haven't read the article - but i believe in honesty, and working things out. (Why would she/I be honest if we knew it would be the end of it?)
My wife had a little affair early in our relatioship. First time drunk, didn't enjoy it - didn't even like the guy and made him stop once she sobered up a little. There was no purpose with the sex - but it was bad. (We're painfully honest with eachother - so i trust her on this).
Forgave her instantly - but it was painful for a long time afterwards. However, the proces of dealing with it made us more open for some "wild stuff". Since then there has been several great-sex experiences with other people. (Threesome aint cheating! :-) )
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