This raises a warning flag for me. If she is as serious about you as you are for her, I would expect her to take more of a stand on your behalf. Her family's continued illwill toward you is a pattern I would wish to break, if I were in her place. I have an additional concern that she may continue to not support you after the marriage. People generally do not change their habits over night.
I suggest sitting down with her and telling her how much an extended family is important to you and see if she is willing to communicate with her family in support of you.
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