Speaking as someone who hurt someone else. I can't know your side of the hurt. But I am hoping that he realizes what he has done. I can't say forgive him or forget him. That is a decision only you can make. You are the one who will know what you want. I say take some time away let him know that you know. Don't wait for him to come out with it.
And from his side I beleive that cheating in any case is wrong. I know that and I know what I did was wrong. But for some they don't understand the pain the cause and do it again. Please don't think its you or anything about you. Some are just this way.
I don't want to be labled a cheater for what I did. And I don't think you should lable yourself defective for someone else.
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"Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man
affected us as kids,we'd all be running around in
darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening
to repetitive electronic music."
-Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989
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