OK, I know that your brother sleeping with your ex might be a little strange, but she's your EX. So if your brother wants your sloppy seconds, so what? She's not the one you want anyway, right?
You want the ex that made out with some dude when she was drunk. Well, even though you've been talking, she is still not your gf. So what she does has no bearing on your future relationship. You could have been making out with some other girl at the same time and that would have been a-ok, too.
I think you are overcomplicating things, sweetie. Just really consider what's relevant here: you love your brother, he's important to you. You love your ex, she's important to you. That is all that matters right now. Let everything else go.
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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