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Originally posted by Strange Famous
plus she works in a liquer store, so thats a bonus.
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That's always a PLUS.
No, seriously, congrats on getting her digits. You're very excited now and wondering what the hell to do without blowing it. So, I would listen to what everyone else here has to say and then make your move. I want to emphasize: slow down cowboy! Sounds like a girl you're real keen on, so just give it a couple of days and then when you're ready- make that awesome move.
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Originally posted by Strange Famous
I dont want to just go to a bar cos I will probably only get drunk and act a fool.
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Ok, so booze is good for the confidence but it might turn you into the court jester (a drunken court jester). Take her somewhere for a quick bite to eat (you can learn so much about someone at the dinner table) and then take her somewhere like an amusement park. It doesn't matter how shitty the place is, you'll be able to wander around and chat while talking about what crappy rides to go on. Ferris wheel is always cool. Is there a ghost house? How old are you for chrissakes?
But I don't know where you are and what is available. Don't do something that you do with your mates, do something that you'd think she'd like or something you've always wanted to do. Chicks like to be surprised, I'm not talking about a bunch of flowers or a fancy restaurant, I'm talking about taking her somewhere she would least expect with a guy like you. Eg, If you're a geek, take her to a smash 'em up derby, or to a wrestling match. It doesn't matter if you don't know anything about it- just say your friend recommended it to you.
Are you a cool looking athlete type? Shit, I don't know, take her to an exhibition at a museum or walk through an aquarium or even go to an observatory. Man, It's hard coming up with ideas when you've been drinking wine all night. I'll get back to you.
Good luck!