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This is going to sound harsh man, but it seems that your focussing on this particular girl because of issues to do with your family and personal life.
You've said your against drinking, and considering you said your dad is drunk all the time, hardly suprising.
It's very easy when young to imprint emotions onto someone for reasons that really just arn't logical, such as not wanting her to drink in this case. I did it myself for several years, it sucks, i know.
You don't want her to end up messed up like your family, which is very good reasoning, but there may just be a slightly problem with because of your views on life, things are being blown out of proportion on your end.
Everyone between 19-21 likes to go out and have a few drinks, some more than others. I've dated a few girls at 20 who couldn't stay away from the stuff, but it's something you do grow out of as time and responsibilities grow on you. Several of my friends have had their liscences revoked for drink driving, but a couple of years later they're probably some of the safest drivers around. These type of things help you learn lessons that otherwise may just pass you overhead.
I can understand how your feeling right now, like i said, i've done something very similar, but you need to understand that your forcing yourself to escape one problem by creating another.
Don't do anything stupid man, it's not worth it. Shit like this is hard, but just about everyone has been through it, just hang in there, take one day at a time, and things eventually do start to take a turn for the better.
The world isn't a perfect place, but ya gota stay in it long enough to at least try to make a difference.
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