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I am also currently in a long distance relationship. We've been together for almost six months now. I read your thread and I swear to god this is exactly what I was going through like 5 days ago!
I also felt that he was putting in no effort. I realize he is busy with work, classes, hanging with family and hanging out with friends, but I need some attention too!! So we talked about it. Or actually I sent him an email because I wanted to talk to him one night after not talking for about 3 days, but he was going out with the boys. I was fed up. I explained in the email exactly how I was feeling. I don't think he really had any clue. They are not mind readers.
Communication is soooo important. Especially in a LDR. Now, he tries to call me everyday and if I go to bed before he can call he'll leave a message on my cell. Just talk it over with him, let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you just need a little more time from him. You both need to be on the same level for this to work. There is no guarantee that a LDR will work. It takes a lot of effort on both ends. Good Luck!!
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