|
This sounds like so many situations I have been in. Exactly. In fact, I was the other guy for a while....just a nice one, not an asshat. She broke up with me, decided she wanted to still fuck me when she had time because I was a convenience, but was also on the prowl for another good lay. She ended up finding that lay pretty quick but was still fucking me at the same time. It was all about her. Not me. Not the other guy.
You, my friend, need to make sure she knows what she wants out of being YOUR girlfriend. I get so tired of hearing about relationships that are one sided. They want to have male friends, even male friends that they have had sex with in the past because they want and love the attention. Realtionships need to have a strong foundation of trust. Having her continue to keep in touch with this moron, who is also trying to ruin your chances with her, is not healthy. You can be the most non-jealous, secure guy in the world, but there will always be guys like this out there that try to undermine what you have with her. Male friends are one thing....male friends who know someone is spoken for and they still try to get in their pants and not good. If she really loves you, I hope she will think for the two of you as opposed to just thinking about herself.
/end rant
__________________
Doh!!!!
-Homer Simpson
|