so you've perfected the art of showing affection and appreciation in the superficial way that every girl dreams of... no wonder you're not getting anywhere with these girls.
you're doing all these things for totally selfish reasons; to make you feel decent and like you're "living up to your potential". and while the byproduct might seem that you're acting like the perfect gentleman in her eyes and her parents eyes, your intentions for doing those things aren't genuine, and that's why it slowly eats at you until you can't stand it any longer.
it's not the fact that you're too good at showing affection, you're just showing it for the wrong reasons. if you were doing it because you genuinely cared for those girls, you wouldn't have been able to turn it off so easily.
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