Guess I am the only Yes....as I have already been in this situation. My first wife (long story) is a christian minister, and has done a great job with our son, as I knew she would. We divorced at her request, thru my manipulation of circumstance (also a long story), in order for me to be with what I percieve to be my soul mate.
We now have three children of our own, and as difficult as it was at the time, for all involved, it is far better than the inevitable result of staying together.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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