I'm going to sound like your mother, or an afterschool special or something however... Some unsolicted advice:
Beauty/handsomeness comes from within. A great personality shows through. Consider this scenario:
You walk into a bar, and there are two women/girls the first woman is gorgeous, she makes some of the supermodels look ugly, but she's not looking very happy. Shes frowning, any person who approacher her she frowns. The second woman, is plainer, but she's smiling, she's laughing, anyone who approaches her, she's very open. Which woman do you want to talk to?
You are only a loser if you think you are a loser. I am not saying be arrogant, cause women don't like that so much, but have some confidence in yourself. Everyone has at least five good things about themselves, I'd challenge you to find at least 10 - oh hell, make ya work find 20. They are there. If you beleive you are worth spending time with, then people will spend time with you.
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Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
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